SHOULD I MARRY HIM/HER OR NOT

SIGNS YOU SHOULD LOOK OUT FOR !!!

Amos 3:3 says  "Can two work together except they be agree"? 

One of the most important ingredient for a successful relationship which our religious folks tends to overlook is "Compatibility"

What is compatibility???

The ability to exist together in harmony (like an homogenous mixture) without conflict and trouble, and still maintaining our unique differences... "Uniformity in diversity"
Compatibility shouldn't be overlooked if you are considering proposing or accepting a proposal in whatever form of relationship as it plays a great role determining the duration and happiness both parties are gonna enjoy overtime...

It's worthy of note i mention here also, that our unique differences is something we all must appreciate, as it is that which makes us different from others, considering the fact that our maker is not a duplicator but rather a creator. But beyond our differences, there are certain basic values and mindset that should foster uniformity among us, despite our diversity... And it is this little things that our relationship strives on..

For the "more we are alike in matters that matter", the more the Marriage is likely to be of one agreement, unity and oneness. 

In these section, I will be outlining but a few areas where each of us must watch out for when it comes to compatibility.

✔️ Financial Matters

The issue of money management in terms of savings, investment, spending and debt is a major concern that we should look into as most relationship have ended up in chaos.. Just because both parties have different ideologies when it comes to money matter... (How much should we budget for our day in day out expenses, how much should we invest, how much should we keep aside for emergency situation and savings, what is the maximum debt that we can leverage on...) All these and many more are cogent issues we must be on the look out for... 

Questions we should ask should be...

Do we both share the same ideology when it comes to money matters?? 🤔 If yes, I could guarantee you a smooth journey in your relationship tour as long as your finances are concerned...

And remember money is one of the major structures on which love strives on, when properly managed and spent...


So have a joyous ride as I bring across other areas worthy of note where we should seek for compatibility as we progress along in this series...